Graciousness changes people, society

In the course of living in a hectic environment, sometimes it is not difficult to lose patience with other people because they only appear to be getting in the way.

The language barrier, for example, which is increasing showing up due to the influx of foreign workers landing on our shores to carve out a living in the service industry, displays the miscommunication that is often viewed as a kind of hindrance to getting on with everyday living.

Singaporeans can hardly be accused of xenophobia because it is a phenomenon (perceived or actual is disputed depending on who is asked) that is occurring elsewhere overseas and most probably occurred during the time of our forefathers.

However, Singaporeans can have the distinction of being recognised as accomodating to any differences and hindrances brought about by foreign workers and not begrudge them. By exercising a bit of graciousness, people would probably feel that getting along is not too hard to do, and the process can be pleasant.

So do us all a favour and get along by first addressing any issues of perceived or actual points of contention.